Brain Fertilizer

ROFL! Best.Rationalization.Ever. Really. :)

Just keep in mind why women enjoy ballet so much.

You know, a woman who's self-confidence would be boosted by THAT, is a woman who would only leave a jerk for another at least as jerky -- or was that the hope?
"Nuking men today, to bring about a better tomorrow" -- that's my contribution to society ;)

I understand, Jane. Feeling attractive is quite a bit different from feeling like an attractive object. The important thing for a woman is to be found attractive by someone whose opiniong the woman values, not from a random stranger.

Perhaps it was a bad joke, considering my actual values.

You know, Nathan, knowing your actual values, it was surprising to read that you hadn't yet decided to stop looking down a woman's shirt or undressing her.

It's one thing to acknowledge and appreciate beauty, it's another to bait it. A good lure may catch a beautiful fish, but it takes a strong fisherman to reel it in without destroying it.

I never trust a man whom I catch purposely trying to get a glimpse, and I definitely don't trust one who is taking figurative liberties with my clothing.

I will take into consideration you current state of, ummm, well, "lack of" is probably more accurate and remember it can cause a man to "look" far more than he might were he not in need and not allow myself to be offended ;)

...but "a joke" it was. I thought putting it in the humor category would indicate clearly this wasn't really me at all.

Perhaps a serious post about all this is in order. I'll try to get to it soon.