Okay, I admit it: I've got stupid titles, usually.
I have a liberal friend named Jo. You've probably seen her comment here. We've tangled on stuff in the past, and even stopped talking to each other twice over politics. The stronger our friendship grows, the shorter and less intense the political battles are...
They way we've battled has evolved, as well. We used to let it all hang out, and that's how we've hurt each others' feelings, and so learned to try to phrase things inoffensively. Well, as she's stopped blogging and I've been blogging more, I've decided I can't do that. I've urged her to let me have it with both barrels, and we'd use off-line emails to soften the blow, but she doesn't want to. Part of that may be that I have lots of conservative readers who might (and have) respond just as forcefully, and in the past I haven't done much to protect her from that. So in the interest of having good debates, I ask all of you to be respectful of any visiting liberals. I usually let the idiot liberals post unaltered, because it just highlights their stupidity, but Jo is not an idiot, and she usually has very good, thoughtful, justifiable reasons for the opinions she holds. Keep that in mind, and expect that blasting her will result in me having to do something. Don't make me angry, you won't like me when I'm angry.
And there are reasons I want to protect any liberals who stop by:
-it takes great courage to post in your opponents' camp.
-debate and challenge almost always refines ideas and solutions
-Most importantly (and the reason for this post), is that through our debates and arguments, I've found that we can get all angry and hurt, and then for the sake of the friendship keep trying to explain and understand...and end up realizing we are saying the exact same thing.
It makes me wonder: is it possible that the Left and the Right don't even understand the basic terminology we use?
Liberals right now are claiming that if the voters had truly understood their position, they would have voted Democrat. At the same time, their explanations of why people did vote Republican reveal that they have no understanding of Republican voters.
Where is the fundamental disconnect?
Is it possible that a liberal explanation and a conservative explanation of nearly identical opinions will invariably result in misunderstandings? Is the angle of viewpoint more important than the actual position held?
If so, that is a very significant factor that needs to be integrated into future political discussions.
Thoughts?
Ultimately, there comes a point where we all agree.
Most issues, the same goals exist, it's the vehicle for getting there that's the problem. Right and left want to see less abortions. Typical left-thought is to do so by teaching sex ed and having birth control readily available to anyone who wants it. The right angle typically involves teaching abstinence. In the end we want to be in the same place though.
Right wants more jobs, left wants more jobs. Right often thinks giving business more freedoms/less taxation is the answer, some left (though definitely not all) think the answer lies in greater control on imported items and less outsourcing. Again, we want to be in the same place, but the way we think we should proceed is where the arguments begin.
And people, DO NOT make Nathan do something. It will be ugly. :)
You're reading way too much into it. Conservatives are simply dumb.
Posted by: Liberal Larry at November 11, 2004 02:35 PMWe may safely ignore Liberal Larry the troll who is neither Larry nor Liberal.
When conservatives meet liberals they not only have to confront them with their ideas, they must deal with the liberal arrogance that they believe entitles them to make the rules for the discussion. Think if our ambassadors were instructed to speak French.
Liberals place themselves in the group that includes all people of culture and regard conservatives as uncultured. When a disagreement becomes evident, the liberals assume ignorance on the part of the conservative. The naive conservative assumes that the liberal has followed a different line of reasoning in reaching their conclusions and is willing to debate the differences. After a few encounters the conservative realizes that the liberals believe that they have been given their insight by the anointed priests (professors, Dan Rather and other MSM types, and Europe) and they are not about to reconsider it at the behest of some rube.
Liberal arrogance dooms any real discussion.
I meant to say also that this accounts for the fact that few liberals are interested in commenting (other than derisively when they see an opportunity to show off their cleverness) on conservative blogs. They are so clearly right, what could they possibly learn from a conservative. Also, when they try to refute conservative arguments they find that they are so out of practice at considering any questions about their beliefs that they do a terrible job of presenting them to a questioning person. In liberal society one does not question things, one understands them. The only questions tolerated are those which seek FURTHER UNDERSTANDING. Other liberals will always take the time to help a new liberal further understand liberal beliefs. Tolerance of someone questioning liberal beliefs? Not so much. Therefore when a conservative (who is reason-based) tangles with a liberal (who is faith [in professors, MSM and Europe]-based it isn’t pretty. Liberals learn to stick to the liberal blogs where none of their assumptions will be challenged.
Posted by: notherbob2 at November 12, 2004 08:37 AMI agree with Jo,
We all have the same goals. Its just we disagree on how to get there, and each side has a different philosophy on the nature of man.
One side wants to encourage characteristic A, and discourage characteristic B. The other side wants the opposite, and is driven to discourage Characteristic A, and encourage Characteristic B.
(Sometimes, I think this is some crazy mixed up world we live in, when two sides, who tacitly agree on a shared goal, and at the same time have completely opposing means of achieving that goal.)
Posted by: Jeremy at November 12, 2004 11:23 AMI know. Is your chocolate really in my peanut butter, or is my peanut butter actually in your chocolate? Why can't we all see that these are actually two great tastes that go great together?
Posted by: Nathan at November 12, 2004 11:48 AMOkay, I have a crush on Jo.
..er... wait!
Was that question directed at me?
Posted by: Jeremy at November 12, 2004 03:07 PMthat is a good view, thanks for all!
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